about 40 and love?

i found it older than you.

i may find it again.

see Dawn, i have no doubt it is out there, and something wonderful happens when certain people meet who know their meeting will continue, day in and day out, till the tires fall off.

there are some things that can get in the way though ... like unrealistic expectations, we can take that one apart and really look at it close up - if you want - because men do that to, and part of the rationale about it is that someone better will come along (commit already).

there are other reasons too ... who are you attracting to?
what do you need in a partner?

a wise person told me once that when both of you have 'rights and wrongs' that line up - together, the same - then beautiful, you can make a life together.

i look at it like this, the older we get, the less pickin' there is, for sure. but every now and again, a prince is around, looking to treat you like a queen ... that's the one we have to check out - and if it develops into something real and significant, and he offers you his heart, and his name, you might want to take it.

there are many guys out here who do not care for marriage, or re-marriage as the case may be, and you know what, why should we suffer for someone elses' mistake?

you will meet a man, who will treat you like a queen, and that is how you will know him, by his actions.

only you can make the connection. you have to respond.
it will happen. and in this day and age, the older is the wiser, and as others have attested to here - the better!

we get better with age Dear Dawn. In so many things, in every department.
it's a pleasant surprise, a secret, if you will, and a perfect time to find the right guy for you!

peace and love,
nightbird <font color="pink"> </font>