AND....
I had a good time with Jay the other night. He came over Wed night after a show, and we had a great night together. I feel good about things right now with him. We cleared up some of my questions, which mainly had to do with wondering if he wants to continue to get to know me, and hang out more together.. and he does.
He kisses very differently than my husband, and I appreciate it. My husband was not a great kisser -- it could be a chemistry thing, but with my husband, it was always wet and sloppy. With Jay, it's very deep, passionate, slow, and sensual. I really like that.
Who knows what will happen with Jay... he says he cannot wait for me to visit him in NY, where he lives.