you know, I personally know a few T's, not as clients, but acquaintances and one - a friend - over the years, that were less than perfect people.

i've told a story here about a vicodan and valium popping pothead who was so promiscuous, it was embarrassing, as she slept with lots of married guys ... no man was safe until she married at 49.

They are human beings.

Flawed like the rest of us. Only worse. LOL, just kidding.

When we realize they are flawed human beings, we can get irritated, or discerning, like any other personal service person in or lives, without laying the heavy guilt trips and responsibilities for our lives on them that seems fashionable to do these days.

I can't wait to get my new T.
With her comes a whole package of being a true person.
She gets me too.
That's going to be something, but not everything.
I plan on a fair and balanced life, including promising that to others.

You know - what goes around, comes around.

peace and support,
nightbird