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Discombobulated · Apr 07, 2023, 01:27 PM

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Originally Posted by nonightowl

Discomb, what do you mean by family of origin?

Do you mean it might be due to our upbringing or family dynamics?

Jesyka, RUN, don't walk from these women.

Run, run, run.....with the wind!

I'm reminded of a neighbor who once told me "it goes both ways" when I listened to her vent, meaning she'd listen to ME also. One time I called her and woke her. I said, sorry I can call later. She said no, that's okay. After about 30 seconds of listening to me, she said "I'm going back to sleep now" and hung up on me. Seriously...

After all the times she kept calling me about stuff and I listened to HER. Then the obvious bs about being there to listen to me too.

Yes that’s right, I meant the family who raised us, so often the patterns are set then.