treat yourself the very best you can. nobody is there to love you - right now you have to do the job.

cry when you have to, lift your spirits when you can. be comforted by friends. let people in. lean on people you can trust. take up some new interests to fill the void right now.

do you want to go back to school?
take a class, whether dance or drawing, or clay sculpture?

would you like to plan a trip with a friend and go to italy?
or mexico?

you have your life ahead of you now.
this relationship is part of the past - or will be.

when we open up our arms again, because we have done the work on ourselves to clear the problems, refresh ourselves, renew our spirit, the act alone of opening up will bring people into our arms .... the problem then will be discriminating ... who is right for us, who do we want to spend time with and know why.

meanwhile, learn to spend quality time with yourself. have a ball. make friends. do things. go places. make some dreams come true.

it's the loss of love. not the end of the world. it hurts. soon the hurt comes and goes.
one day, you wake up and it's gone.

pece and love,
nightbird


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