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Originally Posted by RDMercer
I'm aware Hope.
It's because I empathize that she's in pain, I'm conditioned to assume it's my fault, I long for her, and because her thinking and rationalizing is so different from mine that it creates cognitive dissonance.
Just a couple of texts can cause that.
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And that's because you place far too much stock in what she says to you... you're placing too much validity on all that she says, without taking into account that it is coming from a place of mental illness and severe disturbance within her. Until you stop listening to and absorbing her blame and BS, you will always feel this way, I'm afraid. You're very stuck in the same emotions and perspective and seem unable to move forward.