To continue the above: I have discussed this issue with my husband and he thinks I am being too sensitive but also understands that I may be correct. I've told him just to let me know when this guy is coming over and I will be "out." It's a weird problem but I really don't see a solution other than avoidance. I'm a very direct person and normally I would confront him. But I don't want to put my husband on the spot.