Those, ArmorPlate108, are words of wisdom and I appreciate it.
I try not so much to be a bully in return but more of a vigilante (which many would still probably say is not a good thing). I just want him to experience the pain his dog caused my dog. Being an animal lover and therefore the "voice" for my dog, I want justice. I tried the legal route and no dice. I would like the confrontation route but as you understand, he wants no part of that. And I'm the first to admit, my actions aren't mild. They're, in fact, direct. I'm no attorney but I know enough to not break the law (intentionally at least). And I admit, there is ego at stake. I can't take too kindly to somebody / something injuring a creature that I love and then going about their lives like it's no big deal.
Concerning your road rage incident, please share more if you'd like. I see aggressive driving all the time and, for the most part, I am pretty passive about it. If people speed, cut in front of me, I don't get too worked up. One thing I still struggle with is when people ride my back bumper. Years ago it was brake-check and middle finger time. Not so much any more. Too many crazy people out there plus I'm a lot older and a little wiser. Obviously though, if a loved one gets hurt (dog attack, road rage, etc.) , I want accountability.
I do like your "better instead of bitter" approach. That is why I go to church to work on my struggles. But, yes, I am feeling at peace today and I hope you are as well.
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