Thanks for saying this. I discussed it again with my husband and he said there's no need to talk to the guy because his friendship is fading anyway since we moved to our new city. But if they continue I will raise it again. I've told my husband I don't want to rob him of a friend, but if we're going to see this guy in person together I need it addressed.


However, I think the guy will just deny it. But at that point I will talk to him myself if needed. I'm actually good at dealing with difficult people/situations. It just blindsided me.


I certainly don't deserve to be disliked or mistreated because I'm not a size 6 or because I'm his idea of plain. I mean, I'm his good friend's wife. It's so damn weird. Maybe there's something else going on but I have no idea what that might be.