I do want to add something to my story about my husband's friend.

I may be a size 16 (the average size of women in North America) and no movie star. But I have performed stand-up comedy, am a published writer, and generally socially competent. For me to feel this uncomfortable around someone is rare. Since the pandemic and gaining 40 pounds I'm a lot more socially anxious, but I'm taking steps to remedy that. That's one reason I really don't need to be around someone who makes me feel self-conscious and seems to dislike me for no reason.


Thanks for listening and for the hugs.