Hi Rose3,

I can imagine how unnerving this kind of situation is for you. I think you might want to have a talk with him before heading out together again and let him know in no uncertain terms that information about you is not to be shared with anyone. I think what he does is tacky....and very possibly because he is lacking in the social skills maybe? Of course it could be more than that, but since I don't know him it's hard for me to figure it out.

But yeah, I would tell him how you feel when he brings you up in conversation with a stranger (or anyone for that matter) right in front of you. You have a voice and can chime in if you feel like it. See how he reacts to you explaining this to him. He may not even realize he's doing that or how you feel about it.

Good luck Rose3!


sabby