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Apr 10, 2023, 08:36 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2004
Location: Kentucky, USA
Posts: 25,077
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I don't know about anyone else, but I feel like I have wasted a lot of my lifetime trying to influence the thought streams of other people.
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I quit doing that when I left my now ex-husband. Seriously....NOT MY JOB. I have learned if I don't care for their thought streams I walk away. Trying to influence is a waste of time but I will never walk away without telling them why. However even then I have found their thought streams don't even allow them to process the "why".
I had a guy from high school & college contact me (messenger) a few years ago. It was like talking in circles with him & a waste of my time & really nothing in common & he got obnoxious. I initially unfriended him then had to block him. He wished me happy birthday this year through a friend & wanted to talk through why I blocked him. Told the mutual friend nicely that I had explained & nothing he would have to say would change what I thought & why. Some just don't get it & I have a busy life I don't need to waste on things like that.
Lol....no matter what the book says no one can get me to do anything I don't want to do.
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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