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Old Apr 10, 2023, 11:35 PM
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Originally Posted by lizardlady View Post
Rose, why not give yourself a few days to decide what you want to do? For me sometimes letting things sit on a back burner allows what I want to bubble to the surface.

Some of what you mention (negative talk about relative, sending a ton of emails) is concerning.
That's a great approach, which I've used in the past and was glad I did. I'm not initiating anything with this person. Her text yesterday said she would contact me in a week. I don't know for what?

Thanks for understanding the "concerning" aspect. The negative talk is quite off-putting. Another relative I was just talking to warned me that this person is "needy."

I'm going to have to stiffen my spine and not get drawn into a quagmire of stressful interaction.