Thread: Dating After Abuse and Dealing With Life Changes
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Old Apr 12, 2023, 02:10 PM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
He doesn’t need to absorb or understand.

So he says you are using him and you are selfish, but then pleading for you to take him. It makes no sense. None.
That's abuse for you... he says mean things in one breath, and is crying and pleading with me in the next.
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