Thanks all for your replies! The main reason I thought he was trying to lengthen sessions in between is because he wants me to go to once a week instead of twice. I am not angry necessarily about Friday, I'm just frustrated because our relationship sucks right how. I'm unable to shake this and am obsessing about it 24/7. I wish he could just be the kind T that he was for the first 2 and a half years. Now I just don't feel it. Is it me? Probably, who knows?
I did like Echoes reframing , though:
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Sheesh. They tell us to have a life outside of therapy, then think we are free all hours and days. lol. grrr.
ROLF. I absolutely love that. That is exactly what I'm going to tell my T on Tues. "Well, T, I know you make mistakes (lie) but I need you to realize that I have a life outside of therapy that doesn't involve you. What do you think? That I am living my life around you? That's preposterous! I forgive you, but don't do it again."
Thanks Echoes, and everyone else

who helped me see it in a different perspective. Take care all.