"I want to be heard." said Rabbit.
"Why doesn't everyone hear me?"
"Because their heads are already full of judgements and ideas about you." said Bear. "It's not that they can't hear you. it's that they don't want to."
"Should I try saying things in a different way?" asked Rabbit.
"No." said Bear. "Say things as you always have. Those who matter hear you loud and clear, even when you say nothing at all."