Hi Arbie, I'm so sorry for what you're going through. My ex-husband was similar: he'd go on and on about his job, barely letting me get a word in, and when I would he'd LITERALLY, just walk away and address one of our kids like I wasn't even speaking! I also had to lose it before anyone realized I was at my breaking point, then got called crazy. You're dealing with a lot and I wish I had some advice for you. Hugs and good luck with it all.