I understand going to church may be "contradictory" but it appears you missed the point. Again, going to church was never meant to be a magic pill. I may go for the rest of my life and still struggle to find closure. Also, you say you're not religious yet you seem to have a lot to say about God, forgiveness and several Bible verses which I found interesting.

You seem to have avoided answering my question on whether you ever experienced what I did. I'll respectfully assume you didn't (and I'm glad). It is best to hold off on judgement until you experience some things first-hand. I might also add that I don't need to be "shocked" into anything. I'm way too old for that. Come at me in a mature and civil matter and we're golden.

It also appears you misunderstood my anger as I am not "planning" revenge. Yes, I would like it but it's nothing I "plan". Big difference. In your opinion you may think I'm a bully or "worse" than the offending party which is fine. I however, see it completely different than that.

Peace.