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Originally Posted by divine1966
I agree. It does make you vulnerable. It’s a work in progress. I think we look at it as you are either nice or nasty. But there’s something in between. Don’t need to be a biatch. Polite and cordial but not “too nice” is good enough. Keeping your distance from jerks. No need to argue but simply detach from them.
See you found your inner biotch and told your ex off. Lol Good for you.
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SO true... because after being "too nice", and then after being manipulated, abused, mistreated, lied to, cheated on, betrayed, or taken advantage of, my nastiness then comes out....
there IS a middle ground, and I need to find it. Detachment is preferable. I will learn... something for me to work towards in my personal development.