A real sticking point for me is that our lawyer told me it wasn't necessary to tell the judge I had lost my job and income. He certainly was NOT acting on my behalf or protecting my interests.. he was protecting my husband's interests and this makes me irate. Serves me right given who I chose for a lawyer, yet I had NO choice at the time because I had no funds to pay another lawyer. IF i had told the judge that I lost my income, perhaps the outcome would have been different. Is it now too late to pursue this legally, after we've already had our divorce hearing and after the judge approved our divorce agreement? I don't know... I am trying to ask lawyers for free online this weekend.