thabks for resurrecting this. well, I'm happy to say that he's 'back' and his reluctance really did seem to be because there was a baby inside me. the fact that I had a c-section instead of a vaginal birth might have even helped in terms of when he was ready to get back in the saddle.

however, now *I* don't really feel like having sex these days - I barely have time to brush my teeth or eat - but that's another story...

thanks for your support everyone! I survived!