Our situation is complicated as second marriages go. We aren’t rich so not leaving behind much of anything but whatever we do leave, has to be split between three kids. And it’s not the same as siblings as they aren’t. So far two grandkids but I think we’ll have more.

I have headache just thinking about it.

I have a journal. It’s called “I am dead, what’s now?”- it has space for all info you have to leave behind. I bought it 7 years ago. It’s still blank. Ugh