As for my situation, last night something wonderful (to me) happened: we were together preparing for a party we’re hosting today, and decided to go to bed pretty tired from all the cleaning and prepping. There were no plans for intimacy as we both were not in the mood, but after a few minutes of holding and caressing me he whispered “roll onto your stomach” . He only lasted a short time and I didn’t orgasm but I felt wonderful that he finally “had his way with me”. Afterwards he was so apologetic and wanted to satisfy me another way but I told him just let me hold you as we sleep. I was so pleased!