Rollercoaster makes good points. If going after his inheritance means he’ll go after yours then it’s not advisable. I thought it made a difference because they are married now and it happened during their marriage.

Not having your own divorce attorney is never a good idea. And not reviewing his financial documents and telling judge that you did was a mistake. Was it again because you wanted to keep it amicable and didn’t want your husband upset? This amicable crap is nonsense. Keeping this dude happy seems to cause multitude of problems

I think the best is to talk to actual attorney, your own. Explain what happened and let him or her advice you