Well, I quit the group because I had a schedule conflict with the last class I needed to get my degree. I figured I needed to complete my degree, so I went to group for the last time, said my goodbyes and good wishes, gave T and group leader gifts and even made a banner for their group room. So, no didn't punch anyone!

Next session with T and she dumps me. Interestingly, she's called and left two voicemails in the last two days. One time telling me she wants me to come in one more time. And the next one telling me she thinks she blew it in one of her responses and would I please come in one more time so she could clear that up.

Is she kidding? Is she just torturing me? Or does she want me to give her the opportunity to clean up her %#@&#!? I dunno, but I know I can't do it. I can't even return her calls. Why bother? She already dumped me and I don't need the further agony. I haven't slept since then and am sick to my stomach.

And, damn it, I graduate tonight! Boy, did she pick a grand time to dump me.....

Thanks for all your support and further questions. I'm happy to answer any and all to better understand this pile of doo I'm in.
Best,
Okie