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I feel SO stupid. Why do I allow myself to get hurt like this????

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You didn't do this, she did! Of course you're hurting and you have every right to feel what you feel.

I don't know if I could, but I'd like to think I would go in for the one more visit (HER expense, of course). It might bring some closure to make it easier to for you to deal with it all, and I think if it was me, I might want to have a chance to say face to face how this affected me. Idk, I would have to weigh that against the fact that she could be asking for one more visit for herself (because she blew it and is feeling the fallout from that) and I might be tempted to withhold that last visit so she could sit in her... stuff. But if I thought it might help me some, and probably couldn't make matters worse, I think I might go.

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Congratulations on your graduation tonight! I hope you'll focus on your accomplishment and that it's your time to celebrate your achievement!