I got another call from the person I first described. She was telling me all the things we can do together when I'm visiting my immediate family. She wants us all to get together. Then she wants me to stay at her house, and she wants for her and me to do this and do that. I told her I was having a health issue and might have to cancel my trip. I'm not sure I want her to even know when I'm in her area. I really screwed up by not having much better *boundaries* when she first contacted me. I just never dreamed she would be this forward. It feels like I'm being stalked.

Example: last week she called one evening. After her chatting for quite a while, I said I had a meeting to go to and needed to get going. So she said I could call her when I got back home from that. So I said I would probably be tired by that time. A few days later, she's sending texts, saying we need to talk soon. So I said I was sick and resting. A few days after that, I get another text asking how I'm feeling and how she'ld love another chat soon. So last night I got another call. There's something weird about me suddenly being the focus of this much attention from someone I really don't know. I think I'll limit future phone calls to a certain length of time. I guess I'll figure other ways to establish a certain distance between us. It feels like trying to put toothpaste back in a tube.