I call this being a place-holder friend. It's like you have a role to fill for the other person, but really anybody would do. You arent uniquely qualified. Someone once told me i was her Thursday friend, so she wasnt alone on thursdays. Really?? Guess what? No, im not.
Some people want and like this. They prefer it to being alone. I need a good reason to give up my peace and solitude.
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