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Old Apr 18, 2023, 03:10 AM
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Originally Posted by Samicat View Post
I think accepting the 17K is reasonable. Dragging it out will mean more lawyers' costs with no guarantee of a higher settlement.


Also if you take the money, this is DONE which will be a load off your shoulders.

It's crystal clear that he deceived you and the judge, and for that reason alone I would cut off all contact with him.

I think it would be prudent to still look for a roommate, but at least you are less pressured.

Thanks, Samicat.

That's what the paralegal told me - that they cannot predict right now how much I would get if I did pursue it. And a large part of me feels like it's morally or ethically wrong to go after more than what he is offering me. It's HIS inheritance after all.

On the flip side, I tend to agree with you and think that he likely omitted it from his financial statement on purpose.. of course, there's no way to really prove this, though.

I had one woman who says she is 59 call me about my apartment. She sounded more like 69-70 years old on the phone! Not a good match.

I don't really know now about a roommate. I can exist for four months without one. Maybe I will push my search up to June 1 and pause my ads for now. I don't know... I really don't want a roommate, unless it's a good match. My home and my space are sacred to me... my home is my sanctuary, my haven, and I don't want to bring just anyone in here with me.
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Last edited by Have Hope; Apr 18, 2023 at 03:53 AM.