Ok, so back to the topic at hand....

I am not good at confronting my husband because of how quickly he manipulates, twists facts and rewrites history to suit his own agenda. Arguing with him goes in circles and becomes word salad. He is also very quick on his feet and I am not. It takes me time, days even, to process and then to effectively respond with a good reply and the facts.

Today, and only after we have deposited this money in my account, I will confront him so that I can cut ties with him for good.

I want to tell him that he must think I'm pretty freaking stupid - that he thinks he could pull one over on me so easily. Well, he didn't, and I am onto him.

I am going to confront him with the fact that it's my belief he omitted the inheritance purposely from his financials, to hide it from me and from the judge. I am going to tell him that I CAN still legally pursue it IF I want to. I will tell him he has done very shady things in the past, and that I don't put it past him to have done this on purpose.

Remember way back that he took my credit card and used it to purchase a $300 video game without asking my permission? He knew he was doing something wrong, which he admitted to me once caught, yet he did it anyways. And, love bombing me, telling me how much he loves me and telling me that yes, we will work things out, while simultaneously flirting over text & pursuing another woman, the day after making love to me?!!? SLEAZY! Oh, and of course , I will never forget when he stole a plant holder from Home Depot!

He is a SLEAZE.....

So, no worries, I will take care of things effectively today & will make it clear that I don't want anything more to do with him after this. He doesn't know this yet, he thinks we're on amicable terms, and keeps asking me to hang out, so this will come as a surprise.