I would like to hear from wives / gf that have a man that is older and they are having to deal with him having an orgasm/ejaculating before you are ready or some times even before you get to the gate...... as I have been having this problem with my husband for a few months now and let me tell you it is no fun - I would rather just do it myself these days than to get with him and get all worked up to only have him finish with out me, but once again.
*small - grrrr*

Ladies - how have you dealt with this, short of finishing by your self after the event is over?

Men - how do you as a man deal with this issue?

P.S.
It is really frustrating for me as I like to feel him inside of me for a while before it is over - but once he enters me it seems to be over in 60 second or less....... darn friction -

Short of sounding Selfish........
WHAT ABOUT ME? WHAT ABOUT ME? WHAT ABOUT ME?