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Over_It said:
Should we try counseling or should I just get Over_IT???

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I say - YES to Counseling....... as the problem in any marriage is rarely ever truly about sex (or what ever the fight is over) - not having sex is the love meter in your marriage to show you that there is some thing deeper going on here.... so maybe a third party could help you and your husband.