It could be that it officially happened after he filed for divorce. But he had present financial documents some time after divorce was final. He lied there. Plus if he rugby lie, why did he say he could go to jail?

Then in March he asked if there was a change in financial situations, he said no. Lied again.

Then when judge asked if there is hope for reconciliation, he said no way. He lied. He never stopped contacting you and offering you money begging for you to come back.

So he consistently lied through this whole process