Thread: Dating After Abuse and Dealing With Life Changes
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Old Apr 19, 2023, 11:41 AM
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Originally Posted by RollercoasterLover View Post
I apologize for offending you. I didn't intend that with my suggestion. You are absolutly correct that getting past anger can take years. I'm personally on year 9 and wish now I had started 12 years ago dealing with it.
Then I hope I can say something without offending you.., ? but I think you are projecting your own issues and harsh judgements against your own healing process onto me.. 12 years… are you possibly judging yourself??? Please don’t do that to yourself… we heal and process on our own timelines. And it’s OK. 🤗🤗🤗🙂🙂🙂

Be kind and compassionate with your own healing process. Abuse is complex, and has an enormous and profound impact…. However long it takes, it takes. Hugs to you and to you own healing.
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