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Originally Posted by Have Hope
Then I hope I can say something without offending you.., ? but I think you are projecting your own issues and harsh judgements against your own healing process onto me.. 12 years… are you possibly judging yourself??? Please don’t do that to yourself… we heal and process on our own timelines. And it’s OK. 🤗🤗🤗🙂🙂🙂
Be kind and compassionate with your own healing process. Abuse is complex, and has an enormous and profound impact…. However long it takes, it takes. Hugs to you and to you own healing.
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I'm not offended at all. I'm much farther along in my personal healing process than I share here. Obviously, I didn't word things clearly in my attempt to support you through these difficult times in your life. I've experienced some of the same things you are now going through. My intention was to share things that worked and what I learned along the way. They may not work for you and that's ok. I don't have a horse in your race as they say. That doesn't mean I don't know how to ride a horse or win a horserace.
You are free to be you and make your own choices. I hope you make the best ones for you.