I think getting angry now is appropriate. This whole time hope was focused either on needing ex’s support and being love bombed by him or worrying about upsetting him and find excuses for his behavior. Finally feeling angry is appropriate at the moment. Especially since she is people pleaser. Maybe this anger would finally help her to move on. Now if a year from now hope posts that she is full of anger and can’t function, I’d be concerned. But divorce isn’t even final yet.