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Originally Posted by nonightowl
Sorry you have been in such pain. 😔
The woman who helped me pick a phone was the same one who sent me cat pictures and wore socks that said “bad b i t c h”. I thought how could a giving person like her wear those?!  I was going to delete the pictures of her cats but am keeping them. That’s because I love cats and it’s also a reminder to be very careful of anyone who’s too eager to be my friend. I was so hurt, she seemed so sincere.  She also gave me a pair of cat socks and made a special trip to drop off an extra phone charger! And ghosted me!
The woman who wouldn’t listen to me much more than 30 seconds after saying it goes both ways was my neighbor. I know it’s hard to keep up, lol.
I wonder about being too nice too but I can’t go against my nature. I’m proud of the good person I am and can’t be something I’m not. And even if I did do that, I’m sure it’d backfire on me anyway, with my luck. 
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I don’t understand why that lady ghosted you. The only thing that might make some sense is if she started seeing some guy. Some women will ditch friends the second a guy comes along.
I’ve had that happen to me a lot. Your neighbor was rude & selfish. I’m kind of bitter niw & on the berge of giving uo on even trying to make new friends.
I keep on having the same issues with these rude selfish types . I can’t deal with the constant rejection & the unsatisfying ‘friendships’ anymore. It seems like people just want transactional ‘friendships’ these days.