I remember the day, during the first covid lock down, when I said to her that she needed to be around more, that the kids needed her, and she took such offense to me saying that, that she threw the porn card at me. And I said, I was wrong for that and I hurt you, and I'll be sorry for it for the rest of my life, but it doesn't change what you're doing now.

With that, she stormed off and locked herself in the master bedroom.

I tell you, that day things began to change. Once I changed from apologizing and hiding, to saying, "Yes I did that, now let's talk about you", things changed. They began to get worse. Her hypersensitivity got way worse, her defensiveness got way worse.

No accountability.