And by the way, when I saw my husband to transfer the money at the bank the other day, he asked if I was happy about the money I was receiving. And the answer is twofold: yes and no. I gave him a funny look and told him that I could have gone after far more, but am choosing not to. And it is my guess that a judge would rule in my favor and give me a larger portion of his inheritance since he omitted it and that could be perceived as deception and perjury.

I talked to my mother about this at dinner. To pursue this more legally would be a negative on my mental health. And it would incense my ex, igniting a war between us. I don't need that, and I don't need him sharing personal info about me to all our mutual friends, which is precisely what I know he would do because I've asked him to keep certain things only between us. He knows exactly where and how I am vulnerable, and in knowing how vindictive & vengeful he truly is, I know he would use these things as weapons against me in a war.

No thank you.

It's done, it's over with and there is zero reason for us to be in touch any further, and I've told him this on no uncertain terms. We're done.. and I am moving onwards and upwards!