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Originally Posted by sadmanagain
What should I do to help me get through this uncertainty ? Can anyone offer me any advice ? Should I prepare for the worst and harden myself to survive or remain hopeful and encouraging ? I don't want to act as if I've given up as I am afraid that will only convince her to go thru with the divorce . Or am I just a piece of driftwood at the mercy of the currents and my actions will in the end have no impact on what happens to my own life ? This sucks.
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There are AA and Alanon meetings for both of you... I am not sure she has a problem with drinking, only she knows, and you have a pretty good idea... If I were you I would start reading literature in Alanon, there are some really good daily readers: One day at a time in Alanon, Courage to Change, Hope for Today....
There is a solution, don’t give up just yet.
Hang in there. I feel for you!