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I didn't tell him to call back or anything, but he called me today.

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was also bothered because I was trying to tell him that it was fine that I am a full-time therapist now, but in a few months being a therapist would no longer be the center of my life-- doctoral school would. And school is a lot more difficult to deal with while having an illness, than being a therapist is. He told me I was getting ahead of myself again and that I needed to focus on being in the moment. He wasn't hearing me. Or maybe he was. He didn't understand. Or maybe he did. He was wrong. Or maybe he was right. I don't know I don't know I don't know.

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It sounds like he was hearing you but I think you needed something here. I think he could have added to what he said, saying that he would be there still when you begin doctoral school and you and he together will deal with whatever happens. What do you think?

Hey T--"Nothing" never means "nothing", it means we are overwhelmed and / or have no words for what we're feeling or worrying about. It is so hard.

Pinksoil, your sensitivity is what I suspect helps make you a wonderful T yourself.

and I hope you're feeling better soon.