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Originally Posted by ArmorPlate108
Sadman, sending good vibes that you hang in there without too many problems today.
So much of what you say, I could have written about dh and myself.
So often it feels like the person I once knew died and was replaced with this person who isn't very nice and can't care about anyone else's feelings.
And some people try to convince me that he was always like this..... But in my mind, something definitely changed, and I may never know what. And in the end, it may not really matter 
Open Eyes, thank you for all the information/explanation, it gives me a lot to ponder in regard to dh. He often seems like he is a lot like a child, reverting to maladaptive coping techniques, but not actually able to think about it and control it as much as do it. |
Thank you for your supportive words . It's awful you have gone through a similar situation. I feel for anyone dealing with this hell
Your view that the person you once knew died and was replaced by someone who isn't nice and doesn't care about your feelings . It's like you're talking about my wife.
As for my day...I got up ate breakfast (making sure I keep eating) and saw her and we watched a TV show finale of a series we were watching the last couple months.
It felt so nice watching and discussing the show during the commercials. It was like none of this was happening and we were just enjoying each other's company but it is happening, I just met with my lawyer yesterday to sign some papers. I'm so desperate for interaction with her that this feels like everything is ok in the moment? Is that healthy? Should I stop interacting with her unless absolutely needed ?
Does doing stuff with her keep me from letting go or give me false hopes and keep me from standing up for me ??
Struggling with this one