@RDMercer you mentioned your wife has ADD so firstly it’s important to know this is highly hereditary and secondly, it’s important to be educated about the ADD brain because there are different types and ways to treat that can make a big difference.

Go to YouTube and search “Healing ADHD - See and Heal the 7 types!” With Dr Daniel Amen

It’s worth taking the time to sit and watch/listen to his talk.