A big red flag that someone is a narcissist is how they decide they are entitled to get/take money they really are NOT entitled to have/take.

I don’t know what’s worse, that they decide it’s ok or that they manage to find others that agree. Others that don’t personally know the person they are bad mouthing about.

I also find it very troubling how freely they share very private things about someone right down to size of X and performance.

How they claim someone is abusive when they themselves do cruel things in order to serve their own needs. How they claim someone is love bombing and hoovering when they are the ones doing it for their own ego.

It shocks me when I see others taken in that don’t see the red flags.

I can’t say enough, don’t hand over money and ALWAYS get your own legal advice.

It’s hard when you want to love and trust someone. In my life I have learned how toxic people will use your good nature against you.