You just wanted to be made whole, back to what you started the marriage with. You had savings then, but you went into debt with his shenanigans, always borrowing from you "until payday". Why should you come out of this with less than you went in? Esp since he's always had money. He spent his previous divorce settlement on himslf.

You are just trying to come back to even. He knows he did wrong. He is just trying to counterattack, but its just words. I would let things settle for a while. Stop fanning the flames.