Great.... Now I have to act like a role model for Sadman.



This is hard.

She really has painted herself into a corner.

If she pushes hard for a settlement, we leave the region and she's alone.

If she hangs on thinking she'll eventually get child support for shared custody she's going to have to put in a lot of work, "win" the kids over (not happening), and wait years for a settlement.

If she thinks she's coming home, the oldest has already made a police report against her.

And somehow.... In her mind, she is (1) calling the shots and (2) being victimized.

I just want to tell her off and make her go away.

Last week I got asked about working remotely for another employer. Today mine asked me about a virtual position for a year.

Me and the kids could just leave. And she can't do anything about it.

So, all that's left for her is to create a scene, online or in person.