I've blocked him - yet again. He can only email me now.

I think I spoke with him at least 8 times by phone yesterday to sort out this mess.... or rather, 8 times to fight about the money. He bullied me, he tried to scare and intimidate me, and threatened me all day long. I went to bed at 7 PM, exhausted, exasperated, and upset. I woke up at 4:30 AM again. I am burnt out.

He is one nasty POS. WOW. I knew he was BAD, and I mean REALLY BAD, but this behavior in him truly takes the cake. He flip flopped between loving me, treating me like a stupid idiot and threatening me... all day long. And I yelled at him back... oh yes, I did. I got angry, irate really, and I yelled and screamed at him.

I should have just left it at 17K and I shouldn't have even tried to ask for more. Ok, so that was a mistake, in hindsight.

One point still sticks out to me as a sore point. And that is whether he truly committed perjury or not. I am NOT pursuing this legally... NO... it's only for my own sanity that I wish I knew the real truth.

All I can think is WHY did he think he could go to jail, when I first confronted him with the notion that he hid his inheritance? I mean, I told him I thought he & his lawyer hid it from me, and that I was going to hire a lawyer, and then he drove all the way to my house, BEGGING me to settle this outside of court and informing me that he could go to jail. SO WHY DID HE THINK AND BELIEVE THIS IF HE TRULY KNEW NOTHING ABOUT THE INHERITANCE UNTIL AFTER OUR COURT DATE HAD PASSED, AS HE NOW CLAIMS?

He had been bribing me with money since Feb and long before our court date on March 14. He must have had SOME idea of a pending inheritance, especially since he was offering to buy us a condo, pay off all his debt and my debt, and pay for half my rent. He must have had some idea of what he may get, and weeks before our court date.

A lawyer informed me that legally he was required to update his financial statement if there were any changes, including a pending inheritance, and before our court date.

I think he once again, filled me with lies yesterday. That's what I think. I am going to go back to my old threads and find precisely when he offered to buy us a condo.