Trying to prove you are right and he is a liar is going to do what exactly? Are you trying to prove you are right and he's not worth your time? Or prove you are right and he's a liar? What exactly do you intend to use your "evidence" for? It isn't likely that any info you get by looking back will change your perspective and you just lived a horrible day by trying to prove him wrong. What exactly is your goal?

Being a participant in his game is making you angier, unhappy, afraid and confused. What's keeping you in this game he's set up?

Ruminating over this and reading posts is only going to keep you in emotional turmoil. Ask yourself this... if I choose to keep proving I'm right what will I gain? Make a pros and cons list. Then ask yourself what will I gain if I stop trying to prove myself right? Make a pros and cons list. I'm not saying you don't have a right to feel angry or valid reasons. I'm saying that anger is a deep rabbit hole and going down it means more work getting out. How far down this rabbit hole do you intend to go?