Sorry you are going through that ordeal.


Would you say that being around this person makes you feel bad more than 50% of the time? If you had to give percentages for the times you feel good and bad in this relationship, what do you think they would be?.


On another note, how good do you feel when you feel good and how bad do you feel when you feel bad in this relationship? For example, do times in this relationship make you feel 98% bad at their worst and 59% good at their best? How would you rate that sort of thing?

Perhaps this is a bad approach, I don't know. It sounds like you have already sat down and done the pros and cons of the relationship.

Do you think it would help to put all everything on paper so that in the future when you may be plagued by doubts that you could look at what you thought and felt back in the day?

I have to honestly confess that I never been too good at relationships so actually I am actually the last person on earth to offer you practical and concrete advice.

Hopefully other members here will have some ideas for you.

Sorry again you are suffering these things! It must be quite a mental and physical burden.