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Old Apr 25, 2023, 03:11 PM
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Your relationship was not abusive in what you share. Instead it sounds like something triggered her to start experiencing these ptsd symptoms.

Do you know what the trigger was?

Yes I think I do. About a year and a half ago she had to have an exam by a female doctor (gyno) and due to covid protocols she was required to wear a mask during that exam .

All thru covid she wouldn't go anywhere due to the masking as having her mouth coverec by a mask triggers her as her abusers used to put their hands over her mouth .

She pleaded with the dr to not have to wear the mask but like many medical offices they hide behind the rules of the day and said nope you have to .
She tried explaining her PTSD and rather then hear her and let her take it off because the doctors and nurses all had masks on and were at zero risk .

They broke their hypocritic oaths to do no harm and did her harm all in the name of a stupid rule that makes no sense. She basically had a nervous breakdown during the exam and nothing has been the same since. While she was in the midst of her triggered breakdown they even told her to calm down it's not a big deal 🤬

I am so very angry at that doctor's office because I realize this was the event that led to all of this . After that she became distant and cold and nothing was the same .
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ArmorPlate108, Open Eyes
Thanks for this!
Open Eyes